Friday, August 10, 2012

Cheeky Monkey Tea Party 2012

On a beautiful sunny day in July, young families descend on Sutton's Brooklands Centre for our annual Cheeky Monkey Tea Party. Loads of fun craft activities for the children, including tile painting, seed planting (ours have sprouted now) and decorating cakes:
Clare Rees provided her excellent face painting services.
Ken's Woodshop was there selling beautiful wooden gifts and toys, even making some on the spot, as well as some handmade jewellery. As was Alice Daly with her Phoenix Cards stall.
Refreshments including home-made cakes were delicious and the children had a lovely time playing outside and in.

Survey finds that nearly 40% of online baby advice is wrong

Comments on a recent study, from the NHS  http://www.nhs.uk/news/2012/08august/Pages/Baby-talk-survey-claims-third-of-baby-health-websites-have-wrong-information.aspx

What's On - September 2012


Bumps, Babies and Beyond
Friday 7th 10-11.30am
Methodist Church Hall,
Chapel Street
Ely
FREE ENTRY
Tel: 0844 2436175 for more info

Open Houses
Tuesday 11th 10-12 noon
At Emma's house in Ely

Friday 21st 10-12 noon
At Nancy's house in Littleport

Tuesday 25th 10-12 noon
At Nancy's house in Aldreth

Nearly New Sale
Saturday 29th 10:30 - 12:30pm
Needhams Hall, Ely College, Downham Road, Ely, CB6 2SH
50p entry per family
Members get early entry at 10:15 - Bring your membership card

for more info about open house locations see our facebook page or join our facebook group

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Name one thing that you would recommend for a parent-to-be

Although I am sure we will all miss our old printed magazine, there are lots of advantages to moving to the online version. As well as saving us heaps of money in printing and distribution costs, the online version also provides an archive of all our content which can be easily searched for using the search function (towards the top right). It also allows all the readers to contribute their own knowledge and experiences, making for a far richer resource that parents and parents-to-be can tap into.

You can comment on any post by clicking on the comment section at the bottom of that post. You do have to have a name (but it can be a pseudonym if you prefer). We would love everyone to contribute.

To get things started, I thought we could create a post that helps new parents to decide what they really need. I remember being totally overwhelmed by my first visit to a large baby store at all the things available. I didn't realise there were so many things you could possibly buy. I had been living in the desert for 10 years and had never seen 50% of what is available here.

One thing that we had for Arthur that I would absolutely never be without was the hammock. I had seen several friends using these down under. There are a couple of different types, but I ended up going for this one by Moffi, New Zealand.


It's really portable so my baby could be where ever I was. I had a hook in my bedroom, one in the nursery (but never used it) and one in the lounge. There is also 'love handle' which enables you to attach it to any door frame, so perfect for visiting and holidays. It's on a spring, so you can gently bounce your baby to sleep. Also as your baby moves, he rocks himself back to sleep. Baby sleeps with his head slightly higher than his feet too, which was great for Arthur as he had reflux. It also keeps the baby sleeping on his back, but without the risk of developing flat head syndrome.

I did co-sleep with Arthur at night most of the time, and had the hook in my room over my bed. This meant that I could put him to bed before I went myself, knowing he was safe, but when I got into bed he was right there and I never had to 'get up' in the night.

It was brilliant. The only problem we had with it was getting Arthur out of it when he grew too big for it and had to transfer to cot (this was when he was about 9kg and starting to pull himself up). I would totally recommend this to anyone thinking about how and where their baby is going to sleep and would be happy to answer any questions people may have.

So, what was if for you? 

Help us build our online resource for parents and parents-to-be by commenting on this post, telling us about one thing you wouldn't have been without and why.

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Cadel's Birth Story


By Nancy Welch

After my horrendous birth experience with my daughter I was absolutely dreading giving birth, but after much reading up on breathing techniques and realising that panicking only makes things worse I was prepared as I ever would be. The run up to my last few days had been pretty bad, coming down with very bad flu and being taken to hospital and admitted for a couple of days. Then on Friday 16th March both my other half, Ger and daughter, Juno, also came down with flu. Not great timing to have a baby, and even though I was three days overdue by this stage, I really didn’t think the baby would be coming anytime soon. While eating my dinner that evening, I started getting quite a few Braxton Hicks. After half an hour I realised they were actually quite regular, every seven minutes lasting 30 seconds. After another couple of hours of this I thought I should probably ring my mom and warn her she might be needed in the morning! As she was three hours away I also texted my friend to be on standby.

We went to bed, me downstairs due to my horrendous pregnancy snoring lol. It got to about midnight and I suddenly felt really ill and was sick everywhere. I also realised I was losing my plug. Despite this and the fact I was still getting contractions every seven minutes, I went back to bed as I thought they were supposed to get closer together when labour was established and I could still talk through them. It got to 2.30am and I had quite a strong one so thought I'd better ring the Rosie. I was expecting them to tell me to ring back when they were closer together and asked them when they thought my mom should come over. When I said she was three hours away, I was really surprised when they said I should have rung her three hours ago! They then said I needed to come in straight away – but in the next sentence said they were closed and not accepting anymore deliveries!!!

Ger came down to see how I was doing, poor bloke was so ill I'm not sure he really understood what was going on. I said I had to go in but they were closed and were going to ring back and let me know which hospital was free. His response was to go and get some day nurse! The hospital rang back and said that a hospital in a neighbouring county could take me. We've only lived in Cambridgeshire for a year and had no idea where we were going. Thank God for postcodes and sat navs. Ger went downstairs and for some reason put the kettle on and asked if a cup of tea would help?! I tried to explain that we needed to go ASAP, and he went out to sort out the sat nav and car, at which point my waters broke everywhere, I felt the baby drop down and the contractions started coming every three minutes. There was lots of meconium and blood in the water which scared me, but I decided not to tell Ger as he was obviously getting a bit stressed already.

My friend turned up to babysit. At this point it was 3.30am and the sat nav said we would get there for 4.15. Ger drove like a lunatic, and I seriously thought we would either die on the way or he would have to pull over and help me give birth – thank God it was the middle of the night! We eventually found the hospital and got there at 4.05am, only for Ger to drive slowly around the car park looking for a space! At this point I started yelling for him to park anywhere, just let me out as I couldn't stand sitting through contractions anymore. I was off and walking through A&E while he was still getting everything out the car. I had no idea where we were going and went up two flights of stairs to find deliveries.

We walked into the room at 4.20am and Ger started taking out clothes and food and texting family to let them know where we were, at which point I was yelling at him again to put the bloody phone down, get my birthing t-shirt and massage my back. At the same time, I was telling the poor midwife I wanted to go in the birthing pool (a big no because of meconium in waters) and then asked for an epidural before she had even examined me. She persuaded me to get on the bed which I did really reluctantly as I wanted an active birth this time around and the thought of being strapped to a bed again made me slightly panic.  She found that I was five cm so said she would sort out an epidural, but had to put on a monitor to make sure the baby was ok. At this point I yelled that I needed to push which she said no you're not dilated enough, checked me again and I'd gone from five to 10 cm in one minute! Eight minutes later my beautiful gorgeous little man, Cadel Arthur Declan Miley, was born, and our little family was complete :). 



Total labour two hours, total pushing eight minutes, and I had only been in the delivery room for 10 mins. Cadel's blood cord levels were a little low and because of that and the meconium in the water we had to stay a while, but he’s fine now, we’re just waiting to get a scan to check how badly damaged his kidney is (which we knew about pre-birth).

I can totally understand now how people can enjoy childbirth; it was such an amazing experience, totally natural and different to my daughter’s birth. It was only really painful in the minute when I dilated to 10 cm, otherwise bearable, even the pushing was ok!! I just had four stitches and was out the next day to look after the rest of the family who both still had really bad flu lol.


Join in the Fun with the Great South Run


This October NCT has places in the Great South Run. Right on your doorstep is Europe’s biggest 10 mile race. This flat and fast route takes you past Portsmouth’s historic landmarks, from the Spinnaker Tower to the iconic HMS Victory.

You too can join Paula Radcliff and Mo Farah in crossing the sea-front finish!

Join NCT for the Great South Run this October and you can set yourself a new challenge, whether it’s your first sponsored run, or you’re looking to beat a personal best, this is the race for you.

The run takes place on Sunday 28 October in Portsmouth, there is a £40 fee for a place and we’re asking runners to aim to raise £250 towards NCT’s work supporting parents. There is loads of fundraising support available and runners also receive a training plan, t-shirt and fundraising materials.


More information about the race can be found here http://www.nct.org.uk/great-south-run.

To register your interest today, just email jessica.d’arcy@nct.org.uk.


Photo from Bupa Great South Run

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